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Parenting Teens: Important Topics to Discuss with Your Teenagers

All Archives, Parenting, Parenting Guidelines, Printables    ·    June 23, 2019

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Let’s talk about parenting teens! What, why and how you should discuss the important stuff with your kids.

Parenting Teens

We have reached the next phase in life – a house of teenagers.  When my kids were little, I never thought the day would come.  Parenting topics have been discussed at length here on 30days and this one is a biggie.  It might seem intimidating but it is so incredibly important that they have the tough talks and that your kids get their information from you.

While on Facebook I came across a post from Officer David Gomez, a School Resource Officer from Idaho.  It was simple and straight forward.  “I shouldn’t be having this discussion for the first time with juniors and seniors in high school. Talk to your kids,” was the caption followed by a list of itemized topics.  I knew right away that it needed to be a printable to share with other parents.  

Things to Discuss with Your Teens

There is no right or wrong to these topics.  The “answer” is whatever expectations and boundaries you set as parents.  What I consider appropriate for my kids, you might think otherwise and vice versa.  Whatever your take is, it is imperative to have these discussions.  

Take the time to spell everything out.  

  • Sex: not only go over what sex is but what the outcomes are of having sex.  Including: 
    Consequences
    Diseases
    Partners 
    Kids
    Consent
    Difference between pornography and real life
  • Respect: why is respect important?  What does respect really mean?  What are your expectations of how your kids respect others? 
    At home 
    In school 
    In public 
  • Drugs: a discussion on how doing drugs leads to things in the future.  Nobody thinks when they start doing drugs that they will end up addicted and affecting their life long term.
    Consequences long term and short term
    Lost opportunities
    Future employment
    Addiction
    Cost
    Effect on family members
  • Alcohol: importance of having a plan, what to do and consequences. 
    Expectations
    Parties
    Options if drunk (Parents will pick up anytime any place)
    What if a friend wants to drive home drunk
    Driving drunk costs – 5k cost for first offense
  • Vaping: Becoming more and more of an issue in schools and everywhere. 
    Consequences
    Cost
    Addiction
    Lifelong Choice
  • Nude Pictures; something that needs a clear discussion 
    Consequences 1st offense misdemeanor / 2nd is felony
    Once you send a nude picture it is permanent in most cases
    Extortion
    Self Respect
    Future Job prospects
  • School:  what you expect from your kids regarding school 
    How important is it to your family?
    Reasons for getting homework done?
    What other lessons are learned in school?
    What does your family expect of students?
  • College: good topic to discuss goals with your kids and how to achieve them
    Should start looking at colleges in 8th grade
    Let’s aim high for college
    Write an income and expenses sheet
    Explore what non-college jobs look like
  • Driving: discuss before it’s time to get a permit and license
    Expectations Friends in the car
    Texting and driving
    Importance of maintenance on a car
    Options if broken down
    Do a tabletop discussion of a first crash
    Seat belts
  • Finances: go over all of the big financial stuff.  Refer to this teaching kids about financial responsibility post. 
    Budgeting
    Credit cards
    Investing
    Taxes
    Goals
    Vehicle purchasing + maintenance
    Home purchasing + maintenance
  • Dating: how will you handle dating? 
    Come up with minimum requirements for dating (Job, college, high school, etc.)
    Talk about what a bad relationship looks like
    Talk about exiting a relationship
    What does control look like
    Setting boundaries
  • Social: big topic that needs clarification
    Difference between bullying and social conflict
    How to best handle social conflict
    Options
    Anger Issues?
    Problem Solving

When I told my kids about the Facebook post from Officer Gomez and how important those conversations were to me, they both rolled their eyes and said that we’ve discussed them all over and over.  It might be true but I’d much rather my kids know where their dad and I stand on all of this then say we never talked about it.  According to them, they are over-prepared.  But can you really ever prepare too much? 

Looking for topics that are a little lighter?  Print out these conversation cards. 

Guidelines for Parenting 

Check out my other guides for parenting: 

  • Leaving Kids Home Alone
  • Life Skills
  • Manners
  • Teaching Kids About Money
  • Cell Phone Etiquette
  • Social Media
  • Cell Phones and Technology

 

Download this important teenage topics printable.  For personal use only and permission to post from Officer Gomez.  Thank you! 

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  1. Avatar for MiqueSharon says

    June 23, 2019 at 6:15 am

    Thank you SO much for posting this! Many teens are out for the summer right now and covering one topic a week would cover most of the list. The reminder for parents that 8th grade is the target time to look at colleges was timely too! :)

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